Family-Friendly Valentine’s Day Events in Tulsa

Celebrate Valentine’s by making cherished memories with your family! Below, you’ll find a list of Valentine’s-themed events happening in the Tulsa area. Looking for more? Click here for our list of 8 Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day with Your Kids.


  • When: Thursday, Feb. 4, 6:30-8 p.m.
  • Where: Central Library, 400 Civic Center

Stop by Central Library and use TCCL’s curbside service to pick up a free valentine crafting kit (one per household) while supplies last. Then join on Zoom for a night of chatting and crafting! Each kit contains supplies to make homemade valentine cards, including paper, pens, stickers, stamps and more. Each kit also contains an upcycled library book for an additional Valentine’s Day craft. Register online at or email to sign up for the Zoom crafting hangout. For adults.


  • When: February 5-March 5, 2021
  • Where: Living Arts of Tulsa, 307 E. Reconciliation Way

The Champagne & Chocolate Member Showcase will feature 24 artists with more than 75 works being displayed. The artwork in this exhibition displays the diversity of our member artists in both skill and media, ranging from woodworking to painting. This exhibition will be curated by Diane Salamon.


  • When: February 7-13
  • Where: Central Library, 400 Civic Center

Pick up a cute Valentine’s Day craft via curbside at Central Library. For toddlers to elementary students.


  • When: February 8, 4 p.m. (Pre-register by February 1!)
  • Where: Reed Park Community Center, 4233 S. Yukon Ave.
Come and make your favorite valentine a gift or two and have a great snack. Make something from the heart for your valentine.
Ages: 5-Adult
Date: Monday, Feb. 8, 4-5pm
Cost: $5 per person
Please pre-register by Feb 1.


  • When: February 8, 10 a.m.-7 p.m.
  • Where: Rudisill Regional Library, 1520 N. Hartford Ave.

Fill your hearts with fizz! Pick up a Fizzy Hearts activity kit at Rudisill Regional Library and enjoy this process art activity. Each kit includes a colorable Valentine’s Day minibook and supplies to make a custom card. Kits are available on a first-come-first-serve basis, while supplies last. Watch a preview of this kit on Rudisill’s Facebook page For toddlers to elementary students.


  • When: Wednesday, Feb. 10
  • Where: Schusterman-Benson Library, 3333 E. 32nd Pl.

Create your own mini catapult to make candy sail through the air! This craft kit includes detailed instructions, candy and all the pieces to make a catapult. Kits are available for curbside pickup at the Schusterman-Benson Library, while supplies last. For elementary students.

Romance by the Reef

  • When: February 12-14
  • Where: Oklahoma Aquarium, 300 Aquarium Dr., Jenks

Celebrate Valentine’s Day with your significant otter at the Oklahoma Aquarium! When you purchase a Valentine’s Visit package, you’ll receive admission into the aquarium, a scavenger hunt, and Valentine treats to take home! Upgrade to a Valentine’s Visit + Tour to receive the scavenger hunt, goodies, PLUS a behind-the-scenes tour for two.

Candlelight Creative Challenge

  • When: February 13, 6-9 p.m.; February 14, 12-7 p.m.
  • Where: ahha Tulsa, 101 E. Archer St.
Cue the music, cue the lights, and cue the creativity! This Valentine’s Day weekend, all are invited to try a Candlelight Creative Challenge in THE STUDIO. Couples, families, and friends will get a cardboard box and paper sack full of random materials to create their own art installation inspired by THE EXPERIENCE. 🕯️💖
The Candlelight Creative Challenge is included with admission on the following days and times:
Saturday, February 13 | 6:00-9:00 PM
Sunday, February 14 | 12:00-7:00 PM
Capacity is limited, so reserve your tickets now at Remember to reserve tickets in the time slots listed above!

Peace, Love and a Food Drive

  • When: February 13, 10 a.m.-12 p.m.
  • Where: Iron Gate Tulsa, 501 W. Archer St.
If there was ever a time for a little peace, love and food, it’s now. Iron Gate is hosting a Valentine’s Drive-Thru Food Drive on February 13th from 10am-12pm. Grab your sweetheart and some canned goods and help spread the love. The Iron Gate team will be on hand with a few treats of our own to receive your donations. You can drive-through, drop off, stay safe, and show your heart for hunger.
Below are items that will warm our heart and fill our pantry:
– Canned Tune and Chicken
– Peanut Butter and/or Jelly (Plastic Jars Please)
-Protein-Rich Soup
– Cereal
– Pasta and Canned Pasta Sauce
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Events Outside of Tulsa


  • When: February 1-14
  • Where: National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum, 1700 NE 63rd St., Oklahoma City

One day to celebrate love is not enough! Visit the Museum any time during February 1 – 14 and show your love for your favorite piece of art or artifact. Pick up a heart at Visitor Services, leave it by your selection and share on social media using #MyWest and #HeartsForArt. While visiting, pick up the “Find the Love” guide, a selection of art from the Museum’s collection that speaks of love. Free to Museum members or with Museum admission.

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