Ask the Experts: December 2025
Each month in TulsaKids Magazine, local experts answer frequently asked questions from their area of expertise.
What tips do you have the help keep my little one safe during the off-season?
Beyond the pool’s edge, water dangers lurk in unexpected places. From bathtubs to buckets, even a few inches of water can pose risks, especially for little ones. Puddles, ponds and open containers become potential hazards. Always be vigilant around water sources, no matter how small, and ensure toddlers are within arm’s reach.
It’s not just about pools – awareness is key. Secure lids and empty containers, and create barriers to keep curious minds safe. Water is a joy, but respecting its potential dangers in various forms ensures a safer and happier water experience for everyone.
Miller Swim School
4 Locations in Tulsa, South Tulsa, Jenks and Owasso
918.254.1988
millerswimschool.com
Can I change the court-ordered Christmas visitation schedule this year?
By agreement with the other parent, yes, absolutely. I recommend doing so in writing, email or text. But otherwise, absent some emergency (child in danger), the Court system works too slow to have a change within a month without an agreement. That process would need to be started by the spring to have a realistic shot at being done by the holidays. Instead, try to offer the other side some incentive to change it up a bit if needed, such as swapping days. In all situations, try to take the high road if you think it will go back to court, since unilateral action has the chance of backfiring.
Simon Harwood, Fry & Elder
1630 S. Main St., Tulsa
918.585.1107
simonharwoodlaw.com
Recommendations on how to take care of your children’s teeth during December:
December is full of fun treats, and you can still enjoy them while keeping your smile healthy! Try to save sugary snacks, like cookies, candy canes, and hot cocoa for mealtimes. Your mouth makes more saliva during meals, which helps wash sugar away.
Drink plenty of water, especially after sweets, and try to choose snacks like cheese, fruit, or nuts when you can. And don’t forget the basics: brush twice a day for two minutes and floss once a day to keep sugar from sticking around.
Dr. Christian Doan, Dental Depot Tulsa
6 Tulsa Metro locations
dentaldepot.net
How can parents make positive, healthy holiday memories for their children?
The holidays can be a joyful but hectic time, and children often take their emotional cues from their parents. To create healthy, lasting memories, focus less on perfection and more on connection.
Kids remember how they felt—safe, loved and included—more than elaborate gifts or flawless decorations. Start by keeping traditions simple and meaningful: bake cookies together, volunteer as a family or take an evening walk to see lights. Maintain basic routines like regular meals and sleep to help children feel grounded amid the excitement. If family tensions arise, model calm communication and set gentle boundaries. Let children participate in planning like choosing a recipe, decorating or wrapping gifts so they feel valued. Above all, be present. Put away distractions, listen to their stories and share your own memories.
When parents manage stress and prioritize genuine connection, they teach their children that the holidays are not about doing or receiving, but about being together. Those moments of warmth, laughter and belonging are what truly last.
Grand Mental Health
844.458.2100
24/7 Crisis Line: 800×722.3611
grandmh.com
